Showing posts with label birthday. Show all posts
Showing posts with label birthday. Show all posts

Thursday, January 31, 2013

The Corners and the Cornerstones

After a long day of tidying my apartment, hanging sheets, watching children, and exam preparation, I am finally sitting in my favorite spot: the corner of my bed atop a pile of pillows. The window is opened just wide enough to share the sounds of the night outside while offering me a taste of spring air. It's the end of January and the rain storms have been marching through Cologne all week, but that is no sure sign that winter has been fought off for very long. I am savoring the air, however, because that momentary ambiance of spring brings joy to my senses and my fingers as they write.

Just after midnight!
(Oldenburg, Germany)
January was quite eventful I suppose, looking back. Bjoern and I celebrated our first New Year's Eve together alongside 25 other friends in Oldenburg, Germany. We shot off our own fireworks, despite my personal aversion to the idea, and kissed all the way through the midnight minute as the city around us sparkled and cheered. Since Christmas, the necklace he gave me has not come off my neck; there is a silver airplane charm dangling and constantly reminding me of both my wanderlust and the words he whispered, "the airplane keeps us together and kept us apart." Those machines might make me shaky at takeoff but they connect me to my future, my love, my joys in life; I can never take that for granted!

My birthday dinner from left to right:
Rita, Charlene, Bjoern, Me, Katrin, Ornella, Marta, Sayra, Juan
On January 9th, I celebrated my 22nd birthday in Cologne. I invited over several of my closest friends from my time here so far, cooked them my favorite dinner of fettuccine Alfredo and a salad with homemade Ranch dressing from the seasonings sent with love from my mother back home. It was a wonderful time as I chatted with friends from Germany, Mexico, Russia, France, and Poland; opened presents from their own home countries; ate traditional, American recipes; and reveled in the recognition of how truly intercultural my community has become. We danced the night away in a local place near Zulpicher Platz and, sometime at the end of the night, Bjoern took me in his arms, kissed me fondly, and announced: “I am going to kiss you on your birthday for your next 80 birthdays, starting today.”

Tulips, croissants and fresh orange juice.
Welcome to Amsterdam

After a brief visit to me in Cologne, my darling Irish friend Emma and I left on January 17th for Amsterdam aboard the luxury bullet trains called the ICE (Inter-City Express). We remained in Amsterdam for 4 days and had an absolutely grand time of things, further details of this trip will be provided in a location bio later on. While alone aboard a regional train to explore some traditional windmills, I helped two exchange students find their way and we ended up spending the next few hours together eating mustard soup, tasting cheese, walking across frozen canals and chatting about our own cultures and experiences abroad. Chi and Tony, from Taiwan and Spain respectively, shared with me about their current program in the Netherlands and how they are teaching languages while focusing on international studies. I am constantly left in awe of the people in my surroundings; not a dull moment exists once you open your eyes and introduce yourself to someone new.



Currently, final examinations at the Fachhochschule are dominating both my schedule and mental capacity. At the same time, though, I am somehow finding time to write letters; file my taxes; conduct research for my internship; indulge in a bit of painting; coordinate rent agreements for next year; read Rich Dad, Poor Dad; research the stock market and add some new investments to my portfolio. I suppose there is never a moment when I don't have an idea or something to do, but I don't feel overwhelmed in the least. On the contrary, I feel finally able to open up, relax and embrace the opportunities that lie around every corner. Trust me, Europe and Cologne alone have quite a few corners. What will I find next?

Thursday, March 31, 2011

My 20th Birthday; Plans and Sentiments

January 8th, 2011
Chantepie, France

Tomorrow is my 20th birthday and I have so many plans. Tonight we are going to the pub with all of the internationals and then out for my favorite activity, dancing, afterward. Then, girl’s night at Susan’s place! I have a party for the French Epiphany holiday tomorrow, though I am not entirely sure what that entails or why we are celebrating it. However, it involves cake! My host, Raymonde, is making me pasta for my birthday, too, because that’s my favorite meal by far! I can't wait for all of these adventures and things just keep becoming more and more interesting around here!

However, there is a homesick sentiment that is setting in slowly. I spent New Year's alone and exhausted from my two days of travelling and now I will be without my family and close friends on my birthday. I am clinging to the fact that I am where I have dreamed of being for years and there are so many good things to come! I am living the dream, despite the tears welling up in my eyes when I think about how far away my mom and dad are. This is what I wanted, what I chose, and I shall live with the ups and downs as I learn to cope with all the changes that are coming my way. C'est la vie. The good thing is, this is a great chance to make new friends and an excuse to get everyone together and get to know each other as the semester begins. A bunch of crazy international students overflowing with passion and excitement? No classes yet, just laughter, travel and fun? Happy 20th birthday, Bethany; you are right where you’re supposed to be!