Monday, May 2, 2011

Let's Hope it's just a Speedbump

February 13th, 2011
Chantepie, France

Today was officially the worst day of my trip so far and, in fact, the only bad day I’ve had. I suppose that is a decent ratio overall, even if in the moment it sucks. I don’t want to complain for an entire page because it’s annoying even to me and I also don’t want to delve into the self-pity stage. Basically, it happened like this. I woke up, well-rested, and had plenty of time to eat a healthy lunch, shower, prepare for my day and catch the bus at Calvaire (the closest bus stop).

Upon my arrival, the bus had already left early so I ran the entire way to catch the bus three stops further on the route. It had already passed when I reached it, so I started walking to where two other bus lines met that also went to the République; I had a rendez-vous with all of my friends there at 15h to go to the annual Breton festival together. This was good because I had no idea how to get to the festival. After walking almost two miles in the pouring rain in my dress and boots (because my pants were all still lost in the wash of Raymonde), I had soaking wet feet and I had missed the other two buses. On Sundays, each line only runs every hour, so it’s nearly impossible to line them up properly if you need to take more than one. I waited at the bus stop for 45 minutes until the next bus arrived; this took me into République. Unfortunately, I was an hour and a half late for my meeting and I had no idea where my friends had gone. Recall also that my phone was stolen two weeks ago and I still don’t have a bank account to get another phone because Raymonde signed my housing verification where I was supposed to and the papers were rendered irrelevant. Therefore, I had no way of contacting them.
The next hour was spent looking for the Office de Tourisme, in hopes that they knew where the festival would be, and then inside Le Quick with a tea and some fries as I waited for another 45 minutes for the next bus home. The wind had broken my umbrella, I had blisters on my feet, no idea where my friends were, no phone, was soaking wet and freezing and only had 8 Euros to my name. I finally made it home where my key didn’t work because Raymonde had left her keys in the keyhole on the inside so I waited for her to let me in whilst standing in the pouring rain. I couldn’t even form enough French to explain what happened; I just burst into tears and ran to my room. The cherry on top; Valentine’s Day is tomorrow and I’m in the city of love and romance pissed off, cold, wet and single. Parfait.

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Gospel Choir International Style: Alto?


February 10, 2011
Chantepie, France

I had my choir practice last night again and realized that I certainly did pick yet another challenge for myself; I’m an alto. In most previous years, my vocal range has been that of tenor-soprano but now, out of practice, I am around just a soprano. However I have chosen to be an alto due to the lower sound of my voice that bronchitis had inflicted last week and I’m truly working hard to inscribe the memory of these difficult harmonies onto my vocal chords. The plus side to all of this is that I am truly having an amazing time. I am the only native English speaker in my choir so I am able to assist when the pronunciation is strange and the others assist me when I’m singing too high. It’s an international compromise of sorts. 
Our Gospel Choir through Descibel, ESC Rennes
We are having a concert consisting of 12 songs at the beginning of April this semester and I have already invited my host family (or whoever is still around by that point, seeing as our house population shifts every few weeks or so).
Last night, we had a guest gospel enthusiast come in to share some singing opportunities with us and he showed us a flyer for two workshops, both 7 hours long, with French gospel celebrities who would train us for 3.5 hours and then sing with us for 3.5 hours. There are two different workshops, one on February and one in March, and we receive reduced tariffs because we’re students. I thought at first, oh I should maybe check one of those out. But really, I rarely have opportunities anymore to work on my singing or my passions due to time or money constraints and I basically gave up that passion altogether. Now, I want to try to challenge myself to attend both of the workshops as long as my classes don’t conflict. I want this for me and I am going to do it. What’s the worst that could happen?
‘Gospelling’ His Glory,
Bethany

Another realization


February 8th, 2011
Chantepie, France
I have officially booked flights, hostels and train tickets for my trip to Paris and Italy for spring break. It’s going to just be Lushuana and I, but I am so excited for this journey! We will be staying in each place for two days in going from Paris to Milan to Rome and then to Pisa. We couldn’t be more excited.

The class schedule here is weird and thus I had two French classes yesterday and no courses at all for the rest of the week. It’s nice to be able to have time to collect my thoughts and finish important tasks such as for new job positions, portfolios and paperwork in general. I am able to work, complete my homework ahead of time and eat a healthy diet all while getting sufficient exercise and seeing my friends. What an amazing life I have here! Everything I love in life is here; the only thing missing is the people that I love whom I left behind. 

Tonight, everyone is out at the salsa club again and, even though they claimed that they would come home around midnight, I just did not feel like going out. I had already bought coke for tonight and have a cute dress to wear, I’m not tired and I don’t have class tomorrow; I honestly just don’t want to go out. It’s a strange phenomenon to realize that I have all of the freedom in the world and yet I am able to decide solely on my own terms how I want to live my life. No, I don’t want to hold back your hair tonight and take time tomorrow to recount all of the things that you forgot from last night. In fact, I want to read my book, get a solid night’s sleep in my own bed and get up early to have breakfast in the morning sunlight of the living room. Then, I want to get up and go into the town center to run my errands, process my paperwork and then do some exploring during the daytime. Then, I want to go to choir practice and then home for dinner and a quiet evening. I will go out on Thursday night and Irene’s birthday party is Friday night, so it’s not truly as if I’m missing out on something and I honestly am becoming sick of those who cannot have fun without alcohol involved. That’s where my friends from choir, trips, home and the adults I know here come into play. I can have a two hour conversation with my housemate, Sylvie, about religion and politics here in France while having tea and crepes instead of following some of my dear friends, though drunk, around Rennes in the winter cold at 3 am? Ok, I'll try that!
Your sober sister,
Bethany

Mes cours francais: juste pour savoir


l'Arc de Triopmhe, Paris, France (February, 2011)
En faites, j'ai fini mon dernier examen ce matin, donc ce sont maintenant les vacances! Je garde aussi des garçons français après l'école pour un ami et c'est parfait pour pratiquer le français. J'adore la France et aussi la culture Bretonne. La vie ici est magnifique! Je parle en Français 3-5 heures par jour et je peux aller au cinéma regarder les films en français n'importe quand. Ca me plait. Je vais déclarer mon 'minor' en français quand je reviendrai aux Etats-Unis d'Amérique.

J'ai suivit deux cours en français.
1.)    La culture française. Nous avons analysé la culture, la cuisine, les politiques, le "welfare state," l'immigration, les traditionnels, et un peu d'histoire récent. C’était bien passé je crois, mais je ne sais pas encore mon note final.
2.)    La langue. Le syllabus :
a.       Expressions du temps (date et durée)
b.      Les temps du passé (P.c., imparfait, plus que parfait)
c.       Parler de ses expériences et compétences
d.      Nominalisation
e.      Les pronoms compléments
f.        La comparaison, le superlatif
g.       Les relatives
h.      La place des adjectifs qualificatifs
i.         L’expression de la cause et de la conséquence
j.        La voix passive
k.       Les connecteurs logiques
Il y avait 10 groupes et j’étais dans la neuvième après avoir fait l’examen au début du semestre. C’est bon, n’est-ce pas ?

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Journal Entries: Exploration

February 5th, 2011
Chantepie, France
Fougères, France
France is the bomb. I saw my first castle today in Fougères, France and spent 3 hours wandering around and learning all of the history. I fell in love. France is the best place ever. I miss home and some on my US friends, yes, but this experience is fantastic and I wouldn't change it for the world.
“Hey, I’m not the one who opened the gate. I just walked through it.” –Fougeres lake with Megan, Michaela, Katia, Johanes, Birgit and Ann as we snuck in and then got kicked out of the “private property” area.
I also had the most amazing dessert in Fougeres today after an amazing meal at the French Café Paris. We stopped in at this little patisserie and I took part in one of my favorite activities here in France: I go into a patisserie and pick the one thing that I see that I’ve never tried and I can’t pronounce (or have never heard of) and eat it. This way, I am constantly being surprised, introduced to new flavors and kept on my toes. I like the challenge and the change of something new and unexpected, even if it’s just an amazing dessert without a name.
My brother, Brady, and I spent a lot of time talking about trips and love and dreams tonight and then we got onto the topic of me and people pleasing. He asked if making people happy makes me happy or if it just sustains me. I think that it’s both, honestly. I don't think it's a blanket statement for either one…it mixes. But I do know that, in being an extrovert, I draw my energy from being around people. Following that, I am able to draw other emotions from them, too. (Which for the most part is healthy for both people in the relationship, whether lover or friend). I can empathize with them quite well and I think that's good. However, sometimes I think I'm just trying to sustain myself, my confidence and identity through my interactions with people and life dealings. I challenge myself to do the things of which I am afraid and that's how I end up knowing so many people. It’s really complicated and I wonder if maybe I am too much of a people pleaser, but I try to consistently make time for myself in order to write my goals, talk to God about His goals for me and to pursue my own dreams while I help others’ dreams come true, too. In other words, it’s not a bad habit if I keep it under control and don’t follow the codependent tendencies of my family.

Travel Tips: Dinard and Dinan

Dinard, France
In February, Paulo, Caro, Lushuana and I went to Dinard and Dinan, France. These are two beautiful and pittoresque cities on the northern coast of Bretagne, just off the English Channel. In French, the channel is called "La Manche" which actually translates as a sleeve. The sleeve of England, as it were. It's so fun up there! I recommend going in this order due to times and bus availability: Rennes-Dinard, Dinard-Dinan, Dinan-Rennes. The buses, with a Karte Korrigo from the Rennes Metropole or a student ID are only around 3 euros each way. Make sure that you do not miss your buses and DO NOT wait till the last bus! They will fill up and you can get stuck. 
Dinard, France
Check out the office of Tourisme in Dinard (just off the beach at the end of the bus line) and pick up a map. There are also always festivals, galleries or concerts in Dinard, so check out the cultural calendars and pick some stuff! Most importantly, have fun! Doing some spontaneous and inexpensive traveling is something for which students are perfectly fit!

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Journal Entries: Speedbumps


Wednesday, February 2nd, 2011
Chantepie, France
Things are rough here these last two weeks; I have been ill for 11 days now, I was diagnosed yesterday with Bronchitis and my phone was stolen on Saturday. So, I'm on 5 medications and yet I still have to make the 1 hour trek to classes. But on the upside, I get a better phone, I'll be better soon (I hope) and I got to see how the French healthcare system and insurance really works.
Chantepie, Franc

e: My trek home after sunset
 
I have to walk about a third of the way to school, sick in the rain, (but not sick of the rain at all) and then take two buses and the metro line the entire way. They put me really far from school; I'm actually in another city! However, I get good exercise here in France. I always opt to take the stairs to the metro and the school, so that's several flights of stairs every day. Then there's all the walking to the stops, so I've already lost weight! Also, they eat fresh and simply here and the people are great. I'm always learning something new! Today I had lunch with my Russian friend, Ekaterina, and we had some fascinating conversations about political structure and then we compared writing/authors to economics! It was awesome. Everyone here is as nerdy as I am and is passionate about learning (and dancing/partying, so I figure that's a fun combination).